Dickhead Alert

Today was hilarious! So now he's claiming that I'm biasing his kids. Yep, because between trying to find a job, helping his children with homework, doing my own homework, and finding time to make dinner & do laundry I have SOOO much time available! Of course any time I have left after that is spent thinking about the short, fat, balding, idiot my sister married. Must be. Of course I think, talk, and write about the dickhead all the time. Of course!

What else would I do with my time?!

And naturally I have nothing better to do with my life than sit around and bad-mouth him. Sure, stupid soon-to-be-ex. Of course I have nothing better to do.... Are ex-any-relations really so self-absorbed to think we have no life outside of them? Do they really think we care enough to spend that much time thinking about them? I'm seriously concerned. Maybe it's just my nearly-ex-brother-in-law who is doing this? Maybe no one else has a similar problem?

If that's the case, why did a therapist (NOT for nearly-ex-brother-in-law problems) tell me to blog about the minor irritants in my life? Blogging is supposed to be a stress reliever. Why do a million other people complain about their ex's each day? What makes them think we even care about them? Because seriously, if they think we care about them after everything they've done we are totally DOING SOMETHING WRONG!

Maybe that's where I need to focus. What have I done to make him think I care in any way about him? Like or hate? And who on earth is even telling him that I'm saying mean things about him to his children? It's not his nearly-ex-wife. It can't be the kids. Because I'm not. I'm going out of my way to make sure the kids have to form their own opinions about everything. I've told the little buggers to stop hating him. I've bribed them to be nicer to him. Damnit! It's not my job to make his kids like him!

Suck up to your own kids, dickhead!